We... human being...spend so much of our time           waiting to be loved.........., hoping love will find us, searching........, yearning for that special love.....as in hindi movies n 

melo dramas.. Feeling empty and lost without it........ Wanting someone to give us love and fill us up. ....but 

that does not work in every case or rather in real life...So" Loving Yourself" can  always create love in your life........... When we.. expect love from an "external source", and someone or something does not fulfill your void and fantasy's, then we  will feel worse than before...

when our heart break like anything

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our heart is like soft glass.......we are not masters of love but definately "OUR FIRST LOVE N LAST LOVE IS LAST LOVE"

N we should except it............

 This happens when we aren't that positive about ourself..n this makes our life unhappy...for avoiding such conditions.......we should value ouself's...n something which i have found..........

To love yourself means to accept yourself as you are and to come to terms with those aspects of yourself that you cannot change. It means to have self-respect,

A  positive self-image, and unconditional self-acceptance

Needless to say, it does not mean being arrogant, conceited or thinking that you are better than anyone else. ...It means having a healthy regard for yourself knowing that you are a worthy human being.....

It is important to remind ourselves that no one is perfect. We all have strengths and weaknesses and we certainly possess the resources to work on improving ourselves.

Each of us is unique and has specific talents and abilities to offer. We are all here, in the words of Walt Whitman, "to contribute a verse". 

In order to appreciate yourself it is up to you to discover what makes you unique and to further develop those talents. .

"WE cannot sit around.. and wait for approval from others        

Until  N UNLESS WE love ourself, WE will not be able to love anyone else".WE can only love another to the degree that you do yourself"

SOME THINGS TO BE KEPT IN MIND....

1)

ITS A MIRROR THING......

 The way you see yourself and treat yourself is the ver...y way others will see you and  EVEN.......TREAT.. you.....'". Do you see yourself as valuable and worthy of the gift of love""??

Do you treat yourself lovingly and as a valuable being?

 And most importantly, do you treat OTHERS with love?

 That's the first step to feeling better about yourself. 

2)

Remember that love is not a feeling, it is a choice  !   Make the choice to love yourself and the feeling will come...... After all, who deserves it more? The more loving you are to yourself, the more loving you will be able to be to everyone around 

 Make a choice to come from a place of love for yourself and for everyone who is important in your life

LOVE YOUR SOUL

We should never ever neglect spirit, its most important..........if we neglect it we will lack balance and feel that something is missing in your life. Taking care of your spirit rejuvenates you, and helps you deal with the daily stresses and challenges of everyday life.

When you love yourself.........we  invest in your personal growth and development.......we endeavor to be the best that you can be..., and we.... strive to achieve your potential.........so all the best love yourself...n feel love n lif ..enjoy life..