We... human being...spend so much of our time           waiting to be loved.........., hoping love will find us, searching........, yearning for that special love.....as in hindi movies n 

melo dramas.. Feeling empty and lost without it........ Wanting someone to give us love and fill us up. ....but 

that does not work in every case or rather in real life...So" Loving Yourself" can  always create love in your life........... When we.. expect love from an "external source", and someone or something does not fulfill your void and fantasy's, then we  will feel worse than before...

when our heart break like anything

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our heart is like soft glass.......we are not masters of love but definately "OUR FIRST LOVE N LAST LOVE IS LAST LOVE"

N we should except it............

 This happens when we aren't that positive about ourself..n this makes our life unhappy...for avoiding such conditions.......we should value ouself's...n something which i have found..........

To love yourself means to accept yourself as you are and to come to terms with those aspects of yourself that you cannot change. It means to have self-respect,

A  positive self-image, and unconditional self-acceptance

Needless to say, it does not mean being arrogant, conceited or thinking that you are better than anyone else. ...It means having a healthy regard for yourself knowing that you are a worthy human being.....

It is important to remind ourselves that no one is perfect. We all have strengths and weaknesses and we certainly possess the resources to work on improving ourselves.

Each of us is unique and has specific talents and abilities to offer. We are all here, in the words of Walt Whitman, "to contribute a verse". 

In order to appreciate yourself it is up to you to discover what makes you unique and to further develop those talents. .

"WE cannot sit around.. and wait for approval from others        

Until  N UNLESS WE love ourself, WE will not be able to love anyone else".WE can only love another to the degree that you do yourself"

SOME THINGS TO BE KEPT IN MIND....

1)

ITS A MIRROR THING......

 The way you see yourself and treat yourself is the ver...y way others will see you and  EVEN.......TREAT.. you.....'". Do you see yourself as valuable and worthy of the gift of love""??

Do you treat yourself lovingly and as a valuable being?

 And most importantly, do you treat OTHERS with love?

 That's the first step to feeling better about yourself. 

2)

Remember that love is not a feeling, it is a choice  !   Make the choice to love yourself and the feeling will come...... After all, who deserves it more? The more loving you are to yourself, the more loving you will be able to be to everyone around 

 Make a choice to come from a place of love for yourself and for everyone who is important in your life

LOVE YOUR SOUL

We should never ever neglect spirit, its most important..........if we neglect it we will lack balance and feel that something is missing in your life. Taking care of your spirit rejuvenates you, and helps you deal with the daily stresses and challenges of everyday life.

When you love yourself.........we  invest in your personal growth and development.......we endeavor to be the best that you can be..., and we.... strive to achieve your potential.........so all the best love yourself...n feel love n lif ..enjoy life..

VAMPIRES ..............

THE NATURE OF THE BEAST

DO VAMPIRES EXIST..........????????????/ Are......They are out there in the dark,............... always watching, always hungry.  ...................... ACCORDING to research.............They have
always been there, preying on humanity since before recorded history, eternal,
patient, ravenous.  Scary  n strange,,,,,,,,,,,thought, isn’t it?



We have always believed in monsters.
  Cave paintings showed them as
cavorting beast men.
  The walls of the earliest temples were carved with countless
pernicious spirits and demonic creatures
so why cant we beleive on stories of vampires............
  The ancient Assyrians and Hebrews
wrote of vampiric creatures; the oldest folk tales of Tibet, China, India and the
various native peoples of the Americas all have legends of predatory monsters that
possess vast supernatural powers and who prey on humans.  There are no countries,
no cultures, which do not have beliefs of monsters.so why not vampires.........................


Take vampires for instance.


These creatures come in all shapes and sizes,
and they exist in such exotic variety that the term ‘vampire’ is only used for
convenience here.  However we have to define just what a vampire is it has always stuck in my mind.....havent it your's may be this info cn help?............
  they are,..................
something limited to those creatures that drink blood because only about a third of
the world’s vampires are hematophageous, meaning that they hunt for blood.
 ....................Many vampires attack human in order to feed off life essence, or breath, or sexual essence;
some even feed off of emotions such as hope or love, or qualities like fidelity


. SOME
vampires possess no physical form and prey on their victims as a flashing ball of
light, or come in the form of a destructive plague.  Some of these monsters are
necrophagis, or flesh eaters.  So, what makes a vampire?


 Quite simply, a vampire is
something supernatural that takes what is not theirs to takes   ---blood, life, breath
or some other vital part of their human victims; and they take it by force.

. TYPES OF VAMPIRES
found yet are like.............


These are a number of sub-species into which all of the world’s vampires can
be classified.  Most vampires are wholly one sub-species or another; but there are
quite a few vampires that fall into multiple categories.  Here, then are the subgroupings of the world’s vampires:
· ASTRAL VAMPIRE

1
:  Vampirism in which the astrally projected spirit of a
living person preys on human victims, often draining them of life force or
spiritual energy.  This differs from Psychic Vampirism in that it is a
deliberate method of attack, whereas most humans who use Psychic
Vampirism do so without conscious knowledge


ESSENTIAL VAMPIRE


: Essential vampires feed on one or more of the
following:
o Life Force, often called Chi (Chinese), Gi (Korean), or Ki (Japanese).
This life force is believed to be either electro-chemical, or made from
pure energy and flows throughout the body along pathways called
meridians that are laid out much like the circulatory system.  This
energy flow is the basis for healing arts such as acupuncture and
acupressure, and it cultivated through various meditative practices,
such as yoga.  Humans generate this vital energy naturally, but
Essential vampires cannot and therefore must feed on humans to
sustain their own existence.
                                              
SEXUAL VAMPIRES






o Sexual essence is the food of some vampires, usually those who are
also Sexual Vampires.  These creatures either drain away a man’s
potency, or a woman’s fertility; or take away all sexual drive.  Some
corrupt the mind of the victim so that he or she is incapable of being
faithful to their mates and must seek sexual gratification elsewhere.


· HUMAN VAMPIRE



:
These are not supernatural beings but ordinary
humans who embrace one or more aspects of the vampire life.  There are a
number of different kinds of Human Vampires:
o Role Players: People involved in online vampire role-playing games
such as Vampire: The Masquerade, Vampire: The Eternal Struggle,
BloodLust, and others.
o Lifestylers:  People who live the vampire life constantly and identify
with vampires as kindred spirits.
o Real Vampires: Self-named for their addiction to activities involving
real blood, often involving sado-masochistic cutting (of themselves
and their willing partners) and sometimes the ingestion of blood


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· LIVING VAMPIRE:


 Supernatural creatures that have vampiric qualities
but who are not dead; and because they are alive, they are hard to detect and
can more easily infiltrate a community.
· PSYCHIC VAMPIRE:

  Living humans who either deliberately or, more

often, subconsciously use passive aggressive or codependent behavior to
drain others of emotional, mental, and psychological energy.   ............
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